One of my friends nicole recently came up with her first blogpost, about choices. And it made a big point. The choices we make can either build or tear us down. We try to not make it such a big deal about the choices we make, but later on we'll regret them. Trust me, I know.
We all like to think that we know whats best for other people. But sometimes thats the problem. We like to put other people first before our own, which is a problem because we end up giving up on ourselves trying to make other people happy. If someone is sad, you try to cheer them up no matter what the consequences. Even if you end up sad yourself. Because it's in your nature to put people before you and take care of them. Right?
We waste all this time caring about what people think of us, but we end up giving up in the end because we feel unloved/ not needed. And that can lead to a lot of things that end a friendship/relationship/life...
It's really hard for me to write emotional moving things. To pour my heart on the page, because I just end up hiding my feelings or feel like my writing SUCKS and that i can't write anything well or worth reading.
But the choices we make (like I said earlier) make us who we are. And whether they are good or bad. They're done and over with. And we cant change them. No matter how much we want to. It's like saying that you can choose who you fall in love with. You just can't tell if it will end up being all OK or terrible.
Talk to you later darlings... :)
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