Choices???

One of my friends nicole recently came up with her first blogpost, about choices. And it made a big point. The choices we make can either build or tear us down. We try to not make it such a big deal about the choices we make, but later on we'll regret them. Trust me, I know.

We all like to think that we know whats best for other people. But sometimes thats the problem. We like to put other people first before our own, which is a problem because we end up giving up on ourselves trying to make other people happy. If someone is sad, you try to cheer them up no matter what the consequences. Even if you end up sad yourself. Because it's in your nature to put people before you and take care of them. Right?

We waste all this time caring about what people think of us, but we end up giving up in the end because we feel unloved/ not needed. And that can lead to a lot of things that end a friendship/relationship/life...

It's really hard for me to write emotional moving things. To pour my heart on the page, because I just end up hiding my feelings or feel like my writing SUCKS and that i can't write anything well or worth reading. 

But the choices we make (like I said earlier) make us who we are. And whether they are good or bad. They're done and over with. And we cant change them. No matter how much we want to. It's like saying that you can choose who you fall in love with. You just can't tell if it will end up being all OK or terrible.

Talk to you later darlings... :)

Hope is the thing with feathers

"Hope" is the thing with feathers—
That perches in the soul—
And sings the tune without the words—
And never stops—at all—

And sweetest—in the Gale—is heard—
And sore must be the storm—
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm—

I've heard it in the chillest land—
And on the strangest Sea—
Yet, never, in Extremity,
It asked a crumb—of Me. 

Emily Dickinson

Perks of Being a Wallflower

Ok, so recently i have finished the book and L-O-V-E-D it! The book was awesome, but if you watch the movie you will understand why it pissed  me off. This is a definite read. I still liked the movie anyway but it was just so different that i was confused. (I watched the movie first before actually reading the book.) it's 213 pages long so that took me about a week to read.

If you want an easy read this is for you. and i would love feedback if you have already read it Thanks darlings!

Sorry for such a short post. There will be more to come shortly!

“So, I guess we are who we are for alot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.”
― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower